Wow! In the busyness of everyday life, blogs can certainly take a back seat :) I am learning that when I am busy and have less time to reflect I am reluctant to write. I want everything I say to be the most meaningful stuff I can think of and articulate. Meanwhile, life goes on and insights get buried under much too much information and distractions. I read a lot, especially on the web. I get lots of links from parents and friends related to parenting and there is so much being expressed that is truly worthwhile, it can seem hard to come up with something new. But as I ponder this I ask myself is it really the "new" thoughts and ideas that are the most useful? Or is it the reminders of truths easily forgotten in the rush of everyday life and the deeper reflection upon our own experiences as parents that mean the most?
It is probably both. I hope that during the dog days of summer, you are able to take some time to refresh and reflect on what you might be able to let go of or lighten up on in the upcoming year. Maybe one less kid activity this fall, or learning to say no when baking a dozen cookies for the bake sale will take you over the edge. Or even asking for help? I often suggest to parents that even though money is tight, to consider if there is a way to get the house cleaned professionally once a month, groceries delivered or a babysitter during the most stressful hours before dinner. Just one small change can relieve a huge amount of stress.
Here is to a lovely and luxurious August filled with calm moments and at least a few restful days.
